The Narcissist and Psychopath

Are you Walking on Eggshells with Jekyll & Hyde?


ANTISOCIAL PERSONALITY DISORDER
NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER
PSYCHOPATH
SOCIOPATH

You are not alone...
"I mourn the loss of what could have been and what should have been and the realization that he'll never be any different. It's quite shocking to realize you wasted so much time, love and money on someone who never really cared about you because they can't. It hurts! I hate it too. I'm still spending a lot of time trying to understand and deal with the pain"

"He seemed very needy, which I felt was odd for a man. To look at him, you wouldn't think he was that type, cause he had that tough biker look, but now that I think about it, that was all fake to get what he wanted. He would wear me down until little by little, I stopped being with friends, and family, and he was even jealous when I spent time with my sons."

"It's so exhausting. Every minute of every day was consumed trying to "figure it all out."

"If you want genuine heartfelt advice from one of the many on this forum who have had their entire lives destroyed on every level - emotionally, financially, psychologically: Be Afraid, Be Very Afraid - Run and Never look back!!!"

“Seeing my wife and what she had become, it was like looking at the face of satan and being able to recognize the mask as such. If any one out there is ever confronted by a person like this, run, do not walk, run just as fast as you can.”"I would say my biggest weakness is a heart that is too compassionate; and a high level of tolerance of nonsense."

"Even now I find it difficult to fathom how you can give so much of yourself to a person and have them so totally wipe it all away as if it never happened with no remorse and go on their merry way leaving a path of destruction behind them."

"I have both a therapist and psychiatrist, and both helped me see how I gravitate toward men without consciences because I was raised around them. In fact, I was willing to look the other way for this guy precisely because I grew up looking the other way."

"I wanted it to go back to like when we first met in the beginning---he was so charming, so humorous and complimentary---unlike any guy I ever met and got swept of my feet. He found me at a time during the midst of an estrangement--my ego needed a boost. Nevertheless in the midst of this charm, there was also this gut feeling that something was not right..."


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 I'm alone in my living room and I'm yelling at my TV. "Forget rehabilitation -- that guy is a psychopath." Ever since I visited Dr. Robert Hare in Vancouver I can see them, the psychopaths. It's pretty easy, once you know how to look.
Dr. Robert Hare Interview PSYCHOPATHS AMONG Us. “Take a Look Around” By Robert Hercz
http://www.hare.org/links/saturday.html

 

"He will choose you, disarm you with his words, and control you with his presence. He will delight you with his wit and his plans. He will show you a good time, but you will always get the bill. He will smile and deceive you, and he will scare you with his eyes. And when he is through with you, and he will be through with you, he will desert you and take with him your innocence and your pride. You will be left much sadder but not a lot wiser, and for a long time you will wonder what happened and what you did wrong. And if another of his kind comes knocking at your door, will you open it?"


 

"Psychopaths are social predators who charm, manipulate, and ruthlessly plow their way through life, leaving a broad trail of broken hearts, shattered expectations, and empty wallets. Completely lacking in conscience and feelings for others, they selfishly take what they want and do as they please, violating social norms and expectations without the slightest sense of guilt or regret."
Without Conscience - The Disturbing World of The Psychopaths Among Us by
Robert Hare, PhD

Hello. Recognize me? No? Well, you see me all the time. You read my books, watch me on the big screen, feast on my art, cheer at my games, use my inventions, vote me into office, follow me into battle… Of course you recognize me. I am your inspiration, your role model, your savior, your leader, your best friend, the one you aspire to emulate, the one whose favor makes you glow. But I can also be your worst nightmare.
"Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited" The Introduction: The Habitual identity By Dr. Sam Vaknin
Ken Heilbrunn, M.D.
http://samvak.tripod.com/kenintro.html

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